We are responsible for our thoughts and actions whether deliberate or not.
1- Your behaviour is under your control, be liable and obligated. You might yell at someone or be blunt enough with your words.Even if the person is out of line.
2- Abandon that victim in you that pushes you to blame others and point your finger.
3- Accept the fact that there is a problem there and ratify it. This acknowledgement is the trigger to controlling your behaviour.
4- Pinpoint your strengths and weaknesses.Don’t be too harsh to yourself and seek out the uniqueness in you.
5- Maintain a positive attitude. I believe that an attitude dwells from within; it’s not simply acquired.
By finding out what actually abates your positive attitude, it will be easy to start seeking a favorable one.
“If it’s never our fault, we can’t take responsibility for it. If we can’t take responsibility for it, we’ll always be its victim.” ~ Richard Bach (American Writer)